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[loopin]

Arg... hmm, I like it.

[Alex]

Arg... hmm, I like it.

Everyone must call me arg now or I will not respond. :P

[loopin]

Okay...
So... "Arg" wuzzup??

[Alex]

Okay...
So... "Arg" wuzzup??

Nutton'... _____. (What's your pirate name?)

Do you like my new and improved siggy?

[loopin]

Ha, love this signature :D
I'm Cassandra the dreaded!!! ARRR!!!

[Alex]

Is someone speaking? 'Cause I can't hear well. (I only respond to, "ARG". :D

[Mara=^.^=]

OK. Can someone PLEASE tell me what's going on here? I'm gone for a couple of hours and POOF. Apparently there's been some sort of falling out and Gwen is leaving for good? Anyone wanna fill me in here?

~*Mara*~ = ^.^ =

[cancel_me]

I'll tell you. Hold on while I write it out.

THE STORY:

Earlier today, Miss. IdiotKristatheDumbass was so fed up will everything pairingwise related to JC that she created a "JC Refuge" fanclub, but it had a harsher name than that before I edited it. It's all my fault and I feel so stupid. A few of the JC fans (like Chica, Amanda, Carrie, etc) got really upset --I mean, who would blame them?-- Gwen deleted their posts because the topic was meant for people who just wanted a topic away from anything JC related for once. I hadn't seen their posts beforehand so I didn't get to see what they said, but apparently they thought we were bashing JC, but we weren't-- or at least it didn't appear that way for us.

Then Isaac posted something that apparently offended Gwen (which I didn't see, either). She deleted it. The whole thing started getting out of hand as Isaac fought back. He told us that we were abusing our power. I don't know what exactly happened in the field of post-deletage, but I informed him that I would've made the topic with or without mod powers.

Anyway, we all made up in the topic in Sheer Randomness for JC shippers and respecters. Until, that is, when I decided to post another long apology onto Sunny, Chica, and Amanda's JC website. You know how they have a cbox underneath the forums? Apparently they were saying some kind of mean things about us, that we were being megalomanic, etc. (but don't worry, I mean, I KNOW I was getting out of hand). I still apologized to them and told them that I understood why they were talking smack about Gwen and myself.

Gwen wasn't so keen on that. She got really upset that they were talking about us. So she decided to quit, stripped herself of admin powers, and left. She told everyone that she's not coming back.

And that's the story.

Which is all my fault. So Mara, I feel so bad, that once you get settled into college (if it's now, okay), that you need to strip me of my admin powers. I feel terrible and I feel ashamed everytime I have to talk to you guys. I want to quit now that Gwen's gone. She was like my sister.

But right now I feel the worst. I hope you understand how sorry I am that I caused this trouble.

-Krista

[Mara=^.^=]

OK thanks.

[Alex]

And my new name is, "ARG", and Loopin's, "Cassandra the dreaded". Don't ask.

[girlgenius123]

Oh, Krista explained everything. Ignore my PM. *crosses fingers and hopes Gwen gets email*

[Mara=^.^=]

Hmm, this sounds like it was my fault for making you guys admins in the first place. While I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong, I can understand how other users could feel that you were overstepping boundaries or using privileges that they felt you shouldn't have. I mean, it's always difficult when someone who usually has a "normal" status is put into a position of authority, even if it's only temporary, because it can create resentment.

I think a JC refuge may have been a little iffy, to tell you the truth: I mean, JB fans for example would be offended if a club was made that said ABSOLUTELY NO JB fans welcome. Either way, people get WAY too worked up about pairings PERIOD, and it's too bad that these fights happen. :unsure:

It really makes me feel awful that Gwen left over this argument. In the grand scheme of things, one fight with a couple of people (who later apologized, mind you) shouldn't be enough to outweigh all the great times we've had together on IDOJ. Hopefully she'll get over whatever Isaac said that hurt her feelings and at least venture back onto the site from time to time. She's not just punishing him, she's punishing all of us and herself (I mean, come on, IDOJ without Gwen? That's like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without the peanut butter...an odd analogy I'll admit).

Anyway, I guess I understand, but I wish I could have been there to prevent things from getting out of hand. STUPID college. -_-

~*Mara~ = ^.^ =

[Justine<3]

Mara I have a question about the fanfictions.

Umm, can we post more than one? You know, like 2 at a time? Please answer!!!

[JimmySpaz]

Justine, you can post as many as you want.

This isn't nick.com.

[Justine<3]

Yay! Thanks for tellin' me Kimmy!!!

[JimmySpaz]

^_^

You're welcome.

[girlgenius123]

I feel it's partly my fault for debating with Krista, which lead to the the trouble. I dear hope I didn't drive Gwen away too.

[Beks]

wow :blink: I missed alot. No Gwen? That's like a broadway musical without singing! :wacko: If you are reading this Gwen, we all love you and we want you to come back!


P.S: Hey Mara, is you inbox full? Cause I've sent you a PM awhile ago, and you haven't replied. :unsure:

And to end this post, and to feed everyone with some food for thought, by quote:

Carl: Can't you see your senseless fighting is tearing us apart?!



If humans were all bad, how could we have invented icecream?

[Mara=^.^=]

My inbox was choked to the gills earlier, but I cleared it out and now it's only 20% full.

~*Mara*~ = ^.^ =

[sunnstar]

I'll tell you. Hold on while I write it out.

THE STORY:

Earlier today, Miss. IdiotKristatheDumbass was so fed up will everything pairingwise related to JC that she created a "JC Refuge" fanclub, but it had a harsher name than that before I edited it. It's all my fault and I feel so stupid. A few of the JC fans (like Chica, Amanda, Carrie, etc) got really upset --I mean, who would blame them?-- Gwen deleted their posts because the topic was meant for people who just wanted a topic away from anything JC related for once. I hadn't seen their posts beforehand so I didn't get to see what they said, but apparently they thought we were bashing JC, but we weren't-- or at least it didn't appear that way for us.

Then Isaac posted something that apparently offended Gwen (which I didn't see, either). She deleted it. The whole thing started getting out of hand as Isaac fought back. He told us that we were abusing our power. I don't know what exactly happened in the field of post-deletage, but I informed him that I would've made the topic with or without mod powers.

Anyway, we all made up in the topic in Sheer Randomness for JC shippers and respecters. Until, that is, when I decided to post another long apology onto Sunny, Chica, and Amanda's JC website. You know how they have a cbox underneath the forums? Apparently they were saying some kind of mean things about us, that we were being megalomanic, etc. (but don't worry, I mean, I KNOW I was getting out of hand). I still apologized to them and told them that I understood why they were talking smack about Gwen and myself.

Gwen wasn't so keen on that. She got really upset that they were talking about us. So she decided to quit, stripped herself of admin powers, and left. She told everyone that she's not coming back.

And that's the story.

Which is all my fault. So Mara, I feel so bad, that once you get settled into college (if it's now, okay), that you need to strip me of my admin powers. I feel terrible and I feel ashamed everytime I have to talk to you guys. I want to quit now that Gwen's gone. She was like my sister.

But right now I feel the worst. I hope you understand how sorry I am that I caused this trouble.

-Krista

OMGNOWAI!! (I finally remembered what that means, lol) is Gwen REALLY LEAVING?!?! That would be so sad!
And now I feel so sad that I joined your club, even as a joke. :'(
I'm so sorry if I offended anyone! (I wouldn't know, because everyone insists on having fun while I'm NOT here.)

PS. Chica and I aren't mods at Mandie's site.